Many people may grimace at the idea of treating a woman like a "princess," but it’s a completely normal and valid desire for women to feel valued. If you want to receive princess treatment, follow these steps:
1. Make a Love List
Create a list of qualities you're looking for in a man. Also, list non-negotiable boundaries, such as: "I want a man who is respectful," "I want a man with a provider mindset," and "I want a man who is protective of me." Pay attention to those who compliment you and avoid those who criticize you. When dating multiple people, ensure they meet your criteria and determine who stands out. Focus on the men who give you a lot; you'll find that person. Intentions and where you look matter because if you waste time with the wrong people, you won't find your prince charming. The pickier you are and the quicker you eliminate unsuitable candidates, the faster you'll find your ideal partner.
2. Be Aware of Manipulations
Don’t let yourself believe that your feelings are genuine if someone is manipulating your emotions. Stay detached and remind yourself of your worth as a woman. Recall what you bring to the table, how many men would love to be with you, and remember that you are the prize. Many women have no problem being single and self-sufficient, whereas men often need validation from relationships. You must be detached from needing a man's validation. While validation and love from someone are nice, it's far better to be alone than with someone who treats you poorly or doesn't meet your needs.
3. No Benefits Before Commitment
Don’t give him all the benefits of having a girlfriend without commitment. Men value what they work for; it's human nature to value things we invest effort into. If you give him everything he wants for free, without boundaries or effort, he won’t value it as much. Compare it to receiving a free bag versus one you saved and worked for. The effort put into something increases its value. Let him earn your affection and effort.
4. Actions Speak Louder Than Words
Keep your options open until you're committed. Your brain may find excuses for him because it wants you to like him, especially as you spend more time together. Seeing other men prevents you from creating a fantasy around him that may not be true. Focus on who he is now, not what he could be or what your relationship could become. Observe his efforts to court you and validate him only if he meets your standards.
5. Treat Yourself Like a Princess
Prioritize and take care of yourself, treating yourself like a princess. When you do this, he will have no choice but to treat you the same way. Treat yourself like the queen you are, and he will respect you and your time. Respecting your own time is crucial because if you don’t, why would he? If he acts badly in the beginning, it will likely get worse, so be attentive to red flags. In the beginning, men are on their best behavior, so if they act poorly on the first dates, it's a sign that things won't improve.
By following these steps, you can ensure that you receive the respect and treatment you deserve. Remember, the key to finding a partner who treats you like a princess is to value yourself first. Set high standards, recognize your worth, and never settle for less than you deserve. With patience and self-respect, you will find the right person who appreciates and values you.
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