You've been trying to get in touch with your feminine energy. If you're in a relationship, you want your partner to step into their masculine energy. But you can't force it; it's up to them. You can't say "be more masculine" and have it all work out. That's not how it works. But we can inspire and encourage our partners. We can encourage them to embrace more of their healthy masculinity and step up.
Feminine and Masculine Energy in Relationships.
Remember, we all have both feminine and masculine energy within us. However, in a relationship, one person typically embodies more feminine energy while the other embodies more masculine energy. Often, the woman feels more fulfilled when she takes on the feminine role, and the man feels more fulfilled when he takes on the masculine role. When a woman who is naturally more feminine takes on masculine energy, she feels compelled to do so because her partner isn't stepping up. This can lead to unfulfilling relationships, bickering, and stress for both parties. Women might feel burnt out, unhappy, and unsatisfied, experiencing a lack of purpose.
Healthy feminine energy is about flow, intuition, and connecting with the heart. It's about being open, receptive, feeling emotions, and creativity. The feminine energy tends to add more depth to a relationship. On the other hand, healthy masculine energy is about structure, focus, action, and logic. It involves being centered, loving challenges, and having a sense of purpose. It's about leadership, mission, fulfillment, providing, and protecting. So, how can we inspire our partners to step more into that healthy masculine energy?
Tip 1: Embrace your Femininity.
If you want your man to embody masculine energy, you need to embrace your feminine energy. Masculine and feminine energies coexist; masculine energy needs feminine energy. When you're around a strong, trusted man, you feel more relaxed and sink back into your feminine energy. Conversely, the more a woman embraces her feminine energy, the more her man will step into his masculine energy. This shift takes time, especially if you've been acting more masculine for a while.
Don't let his actions and energy push you out of your feminine energy. If he doesn't step up, resist the instinct to take on masculine responsibilities. Men feel uncomfortable when there isn't masculine energy in the relationship. Stay in your loving feminine energy, no matter how he acts. This isn't easy, but it's important. Men are visual creatures, so when you dress well, look put-together, and show off your beauty, men often become more masculine.
Tip 2: Communicate with Love.
To help your man step up, stop nagging and start communicating with love. Nagging doesn't work; men don't respond well to it. Constantly telling him what he needs to do or criticizing him for not going to the gym or planning dates destroys his confidence. The worst thing for feminine energy is feeling unsafe, unseen, unheard, and ignored. For masculine energy, the worst is feeling criticized or ashamed.
Instead, start communicating with love. Talk to him like you care about and love him. Stay feminine, relaxed, soft, and kind. Avoid being aggressive or snarky.
Tip 3: Believe in Him.
Your partner needs to feel like you believe in him. This is crucial. He should be your biggest cheerleader, and if you want him to start taking action, he needs to know that you trust him to do it. Remind him of his abilities, strengths, and potential. Many men have lost confidence, but if a man sees that you believe in him, he'll start to show his capabilities. Your perception of him can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you think your partner is competent, smart, and talented, he'll thrive.
Tip 4: Show Gratitude and Appreciation.
Gratitude is essential for helping your man step up. Appreciate the things he does. If he starts stepping up, let yourself be happy with that. Show him that his efforts make you happy. If he tries to step up and all he gets is sarcasm or complaints, he won't be encouraged to do more. Healthy, strong masculine energy wants to make life better for the woman he loves, as long as she appreciates it and is happy.
Being the masculine energy in a relationship or the leader in a family is a lot of work, full of pressure and responsibility. Healthy masculine energy aims to take the burden off of you.
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